Saturday, April 23, 2022

Blogging from A to Z 2022 - Talent

#AtoZChallenge 2022 Blogging from A to Z Challenge letter


Welcome to Day 20 of the Blogging from A to Z April Challenge (2022) I will be discussing topics of interest to those who identify as women this year. The Book Connection is lucky number 78 in a list of more than 140 bloggers who are participating in 2022. I encourage you to check out the list and visit other blogs with topics of interest. 

TALENT

Why are women so quick to dismiss their talents? Some cite a lack of confidence. However, Stéphanie Thomson, in writing her 2018 article, "A Lack of Confidence Isn't What's Holding Back Working Women," for The Atlantic, states research shows though women are told confidence is the key to professional success, the appearance of self-confidence is not equally rewarded in men and women. Researchers concluded, “Women were able to translate their self-confident image into influence only when they also displayed high prosocial orientation, or the motivation to benefit others.” Working women must balance self-confidence with modesty or they are seen as unlikeable and less hirable. 

I guess many of us feel uncomfortable with what we see as self-promotion. In addition, even if we can portray confidence, deep inside, we might wonder if we measure up. That's why this quote from Henry Van Dyke has always been a favorite of mine.



Personally, I feel all talents come from God, so if I am not sharing my talents to better the world, I am dishonoring God's plan for my life. That is part of what motivates me every day. 

What are some of your talents? How do you best use them to serve your community?

3 comments:

ladyleemanila said...

I agree with you, Cheryl :)

Frewin55 said...

“Women were able to translate their self-confident image into influence only when they also displayed high prosocial orientation, or the motivation to benefit others.” I have to say, that I have had the most help from women in the A2Z Challenge in both the technical and promotional aspects of blogging in the three years I have been doing it. Your post has been part of making me realise it and I will be naming them in the Reflections post...
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Cheryl said...

Thanks for visiting, ladyleemanila and Frewin55. Eager to see your reflections post, Frewein55.