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Turning Home is not a retreat from love, but the moment love remembers where it began.
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Turning Home is not a retreat from love, but the moment love remembers where it began.
Prologue—How It All Began
I ran after my brothers and their friends—empty cans in their hands—as they rushed to a pond to catch tadpoles. They filled their cans with water from the pond and dropped the tadpoles into the cans. What they did with those tadpoles, I would never know. Later in the afternoon, they flew kites when the wind was good. Or they rode astride a water buffalo that took them across an open field behind the few houses in the neighborhood.
They refused to take me on those little adventures—I was a girl, wore dresses, and could never keep up with them. That was what they said as they ran faster so I couldn’t catch up. I was unhappy at being excluded. Who wouldn’t be? But I had, by then, started to learn to live with being alone.
I spent my first six years with adults—my Lola (grandmother) and her two young unmarried daughters—in a town eight hours by slow train from the big city where my parents lived. Having no one my age to play with, I conjured up an imaginary playmate who stayed with me until we no longer needed one another. I had a big brother who kept my mother’s hands full as she took care of him and worked to secure a permanent position as a teacher.
In my Lola’s little town, no family owned a television to entertain them. But on occasional nights, sweet and sentimental tunes accompanied by a guitar pierced the dark silence just below the closed window in my aunts’ room. The serenaders were young swains courting one or the other of my pretty aunts who, if they liked these suitors or how they sang, invited them into the living room. There, singing went on for another hour or two. My youngest aunt who had a nice voice and knew some English songs was always invited to sing.
Evy studied psychology (M.A., University of Hawaii; Ph.D., University of Illinois) initially to help her understand herself and Dostoevsky. Now, she spins tales about nuanced multicultural characters negotiating separate realities. She believes in love and its many faces.
Just as she has crossed genres in writing fiction, she has also crossed cultures, having lived and traveled in various cities in different countries. Find her thoughts on travel, art, and food at Artsy Rambler.
She has one ungranted wish: to live in Paris, where art is everywhere, and people have honed aimless roaming to an art form. She visits and stays for a few months when she can.
Evy’s latest book is Artsy Rambler: Mindful Journeys to Paris and Beyond.
Visit her website at https://evyjourney.net.
Connect with her on social media at:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/evictoriajourney
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Horowitz, co-founder of the venture capital firm Andreessen Horowitz, invites you to follow along his entrepreneurial journey--the highlights, the disappointments, and the challenges that left him and his team making decisions that could unleash success or lead to their company's demise. His resume features well-known companies in the technology space: Netscape, AOL, Loudcloud, Opsware, and Hewlett-Packard. He has had an amazing journey so far, and you can read his content here.
The Hard Thing About Hard Things came to me as a recommendation from Leigh Brown. It's not a book I would have grabbed from the virtual bookshelf. I am not a technology person. My husband was familiar with Loudcloud and Opsware, but this was the first time I had heard of them. Rest assured, however, that you don't need to be in the technology field or even aware of what those companies do to find value in this book.
Rather than a step-by-step outline, The Hard Thing About Hard Things gives you a dose of reality. You will face tough choices. You might lose some friends to other companies. You could be a great founder and not a superb CEO. There will be sleepless nights in between celebrating successes.
I used an Audible credit to purchase this book. This review contains my honest opinions, which I have not been compensated for in any way.
Why did you decide to write Tender Dreams, Harsh Reality? Did the inspiration come at a particular moment, or had you been planning to write the book for a while?
The idea for Tender Dreams, Harsh Reality had been with me for decades. Over the years, people would often say things like, “I heard you spent time in jail in Mexico, how did that happen?” or “You must have quite a story about your trials and tribulations during the Vietnam War,” or “Tell me about that year-long wilderness program you did.”
Each question opened the door to a story that was far too complex
to tell in a brief conversation. I would start, then realize there simply
wasn’t enough time, or the right setting to do the experiences justice.
Eventually, it became clear that these stories needed more room to breathe.
I kept telling myself, I should write this down. What began as a way to share my experiences with friends and family gradually evolved into something more. I realized that others, beyond my immediate circle might find meaning, insight, or even inspiration in these stories as well. Writing the book became the natural way to finally tell them fully, honestly, and in my own voice.
From the time you started writing Tender Dreams, Harsh
Reality, how long did it take to get it out there? Any obstacles along the
way, or none that you can think of?
The
writing itself took approximately a year. Once the manuscript was complete, I
spent another five months editing and carefully considering which publishing
path to pursue. That stage required just as much thought and commitment as the
writing, as I wanted to be sure the book was presented in the best possible
way.
Like most creative projects, there were potential obstacles, but I was fortunate not to face them alone. The guidance and support of my editor made a tremendous difference. Not only did they help refine the manuscript, but they also walked me through the self-publishing process, which could have been overwhelming otherwise. Without that assistance, I’m certain the journey would have been far more challenging.
What are some of the positive results or responses you have received since publishing your book?
The feedback
from readers has been truly phenomenal and deeply gratifying. Shortly after
publishing Tender Dreams, Harsh Reality, I began writing my second
book, which meant I didn’t initially have much time to focus on marketing the
first one. I’m only now starting to give it the attention it deserves.
Even so, the responses I’ve received have been incredibly encouraging. Several book clubs have chosen the book, and hearing their reactions has been especially meaningful. Many readers connected with the experiences and themes, and it was a genuine pleasure to go down memory lane with book club members who shared similar moments, questions, or reflections. Those conversations have been among the most rewarding outcomes of publishing the book.
Can you share three interesting facts about your book?
Can you list three interesting facts about yourself?
1) In the late 1970s, I taught psychology at a junior college and
worked with learning-disabled students, using hypnosis and Gestalt therapy
primarily to treat phobias. The program proved highly successful, and I went on
to lecture at other colleges on how to develop and implement similar
approaches.
2) I founded an alternative master’s program in Northern
California that allowed students to earn a degree in psychotherapy while
simultaneously accruing supervised hours toward licensure. The program was
taught by leading therapists and professors from the Bay Area and developed a
four-year waiting list.
3) I have a deep love of travel and have traveled extensively
since the 1980s, exploring cultures and places that have continually shaped my
personal and professional perspective.
How can our readers reach out to you?
By email at johnwbeilharz@gmail.com or on Facebook at
https://www.facebook.com/people/John-Beilharz-Author
You know Caitlin Rother as an investigative journalist and true crime expert who has brought you books that I've reviewed here (Death on Ocean Boulevard, Dead Reckoning, Body Parts, and Down to the Bone). Now, experience her fiction writing as she releases the first in her Katrina & Goode thriller series, Hooked.
Returning from a recent surfing trip, homicide detective Ken Goode steps into a bar and sits down next to an attractive young woman named Katrina. Their getting-to-know-you conversation is promptly interrupted by a call, and Ken learns two bodies have been discovered at the affluent La Jolla Farms neighborhood. Vacation over.
The next time they meet, Katrina Chopin has been assigned to report on Ken's case: the mysterious deaths of a well-known doctor and his daughter for the Sun-Dispatch. As they work this case, their attraction grows, and they quickly discover that powerful people don't want this case solved.
Hooked is a superb title for this thrilling and relentless pursuit through the city's underbelly, where wealth and power lead to murder. Rother's police procedural will have you turning page after page as Katrina and Goode deliver the story from their distinct points of view. Sharing a common past, these two are unexpectedly drawn together into a world where all is not as it seems.
I can see a lot of Rother's riveting style from her true crime stories within the pages of Hooked. The main difference is that the reader must follow along with the investigation, watching it unfold piece by piece to an explosive conclusion, rather than knowing who the culprit is upfront.
If you're looking for a high-stakes detective thriller with a hint of romance, order your copy of Hooked today!
The Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge is hosted by Long and Short Reviews. They offer this blog hop as a weekly prompt to help you gain new friends and visitors. You don't have to participate every week, but if you decide to post and join the blog hop for a week, Long and Short Reviews asks that you share your link on their weekly post on their website (it will be the top post on the home page each Wednesday morning). The link list remains open for new links for 48 hours. Visit the other bloggers participating to see what they discuss that week. Comments are appreciated.
Happy Wednesday! Hope your week is going well. I plan to catch up on all comments today in between appointments. It's so crazy to me that I am this busy in January. But fingers crossed, it will all work out the way it should.
Today, we are sharing the books we wish we could read again for the first time. That's such an interesting concept, because even when I read a book a second, third, or fourth time, I discover something new that I never noticed before. Is that odd?
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