Showing posts with label self-help book. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self-help book. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 14, 2026

Book Review: She Forgot She Was Free: Returning to the Girl You Were Before the World Got Loud by Giselle Mascarenhas

 



She Forgot She Was Free: Returning to the Girl You Were Before the World Got Loud by Giselle Mascarenhas provides you with time to step back, reflect, and return to who you always knew you were.

Mascarenhas shares her journey from childhood through adulthood, the ups and downs of various relationships and business opportunities, and how she returned to little Gi and finally learned how to choose herself. As the author shares her story, she empowers you to do the same. Through five guided reflections, you have moments to reflect and take action to return to "the girl you were before the world got loud."

What a beautifully told inspirational experience awaits you in She Forgot Who She Was. Mascarenhas joins the ranks of other inspirational women who remind us that the person we were as a child still lives inside us, and that she was always enough. We don't need to perform for others or pretend to be different. We just need to remember who we always were. 

There were moments when I struggled with this book because I couldn't always find it relatable, but as I continued, the message became clearer to me. We are all on a journey. The memories and experiences can be different, but we are connected in our womanhood to the little girls we once were, and we are freer when we find our way back to them. 

One of the joys of this time of life is realizing what really matters and understanding how important it is to be true to ourselves. I applaud women who have always stayed in touch with the power of the little girl they once were. For some of us, we need to be reminded of her creativity, brilliance, imagination, and her strength. She Forgot Who She Was will get you there.

  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B0H6M1PSHT
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Mija Media House
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ June 23, 2026
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 132 pages
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 979-8234125965


I received a copy of this book from the author. This review contains my honest opinions, and I was not compensated in any way. 

Monday, October 12, 2026

It's Monday! What Are You Reading? and Mailbox Monday - Oct 12



It's Monday! What Are You Reading? is a place to meet up and share what you have been, are, and are about to be reading over the week. It's a great post to organize yourself. It's an opportunity to visit, comment, and add to that ever-growing TBR pile! So welcome, everyone. This meme started with J Kaye's Blog and was then taken up by Sheila from Book Journey. Sheila then passed it on to Kathryn at the Book Date. 

Welcome back to Monday! I hope you had a wonderful week. Mine was filled with gardening, eating out, networking events, and real estate offers. Here are a few photos:


Found these potatoes hiding in the dirt when I emptied the growing bags. That always happens. 


Grabbed a bite to eat for lunch while working one day. It's good to treat yourself every once in a while.


Hanging out with one of the lenders I know. Won a great picnic backpack filled with fun stuff. 

Today, the Lil' Princess is coming home for a few days, which makes me happy. 

As far as reading goes, it was a slower week than expected. I didn't open The Eyes of River by Cindy K. Sproles last week. 



I haven't started Harboring the Enemy: The Civil War Heroine History Forgot by R. C. Duffy yet, but I better soon. 


I finished She Forgot She Was Free: Returning to the Girl You Were Before the World Got Loud by Giselle Mascarenhas. Look for my review on October 14.


I read a bit of The TV MBA: Business Lessons from Popular Culture by Rhymer Rigby. 


I finished Still Wild: Poems from the Bear Shack by Suzanne Sunshower. Look for the review in December.


I finished The Knot: Problems Can Be Solved by Seth Godin this week. Liked the contents. Probably need it in printed form to make the most of it. 


Then I started Building A StoryBrand 2.0: Clarify Your Message So Customers Will Listen by Donald Miller. This book is fascinating so far. 

 


Upcoming Events

  • She Forgot She Was Free by Giselle Mascarenhas - Oct 14 (Review)
  • Still Wild: Poems from the Bear Shack by Suzanne Sunshower - Dec 14 (Review)
  • Starry-Eyed for Christmas by Sheila Roberts - Dec 16 (Review)
  • Sugar Sand Land by Patricia Leavy - Dec 17 (Spotlight & Giveaway)


Mailbox Monday is a gathering place for readers to share the books they added to their shelves the previous week. This weekly meme was last hosted by Vicki at I'd Rather Be At The Beach. It appears to be on hiatus, but I keep sharing new books. 

Two new holiday books arrived this week. 


Starry-Eyed Christmas by Sheila Roberts for a December review.


I grabbed The Wish Book Christmas by Lynn Austin from my wish list. 




Christmas Year Round

This week's Journey through Christmases Past post is about Columbus, Indigenous celebrations, and Canada. Check it out here. 


The Children's and Teens' Book Connection

Recent reviews at The Children's and Teens' Book Connection include:

Day in the Snow by Fiona Craig
Counting Winter by Nancy White Carlstrom

I also added another "What Do You Think?" post. This one is about favorite children's books. You can read that here. 


Laura's Little Houses

I am currently working on a character profile of Harriet Oleson. 

Lots going on, but it is all fun stuff. Hoping to take Wednesday off so I can spend time with our daughter before she heads back to Maine on Friday. That's it from my end of the world. Enjoy your week!

Wednesday, March 18, 2026

Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge: Audiobooks I've Enjoyed

 


The Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge is hosted by Long and Short Reviews. They offer this blog hop as a weekly prompt to help you gain new friends and visitors. You don't have to participate every week, but if you decide to post and join the blog hop for a week, Long and Short Reviews requests that you share your link in their weekly post on their website (which will be the top post on the home page each Wednesday morning). The link list remains open for new links for 48 hours. Visit the other bloggers participating to see what they discuss that week. Comments are appreciated. 

Welcome back to Wednesday! What a week it has been: back-to-back meetings, two accepted offers in three days, and showings. I will be catching up on visiting your blogs today. 

This week's Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge asks us to share audiobooks we have enjoyed. I tend to listen to business books, self-help, and professional development books on Audible. Chirp has books I listen to for fun. 


A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens is one of my favorite Christmas stories. Hugh Grant's voice makes it all the better. 


Many years ago, when a group of Dean Butler fans suggested he write a memoir, we had no idea he would actually write one. Prairie Man: My Little House Life & Beyond by Dean Butler is a wonderful read for any fan of the show. 


I had never read The Secret Garden by Frances Hodgson Burnett until it turned into our first Modern Prairie book club read. What a wonderful story!


Be Useful: Seven Tools for Life by Arnold Schwarzenegger is filled with helpful advice. Such a great book!


Rob Dial, author of Level Up, allows his energy and charisma to shine through as he narrates his book. 

Have you listened to any of these books? What are some of your favorite audiobooks? 

Saturday, September 23, 2023

Audible Book Review: The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy


The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy is an engaging and helpful guide that shows you how small, smart choices, repeated over time, will help you make changes in all facets of your life. Whether you are looking to lose weight, excel in your career, or find that work-life balance, Hardy outlines a plan for you to move forward. 

An entrepreneur by the age of 18, Hardy is the former publisher of SUCCESS magazine. He credits his father's philosophy and encouragement for helping him to succeed from an early age. Hardy shares that philosophy, how he used it to propel him forward in life and business, and shows how you can do so as well. Since he narrates this Audible version, the reader gets to hear from the master how to make it happen.

This was a free choice on Audible that I downloaded to listen to on the drive to appointments. I'm so glad I grabbed it. The Compound Effect is well thought out in its delivery, provides actionable steps, and makes the reader think about how they approach their personal and professional life. Hardy talks about the danger of setting unrealistic goals, sharing examples to prove his point. He encourages the reader to think about who they surround themselves with and how someone else's negativity can impede your progress. Make no mistake; this is not a do a few things and your life will be transformed kind of book. The Compound Effect is a life-long commitment. 

If you're looking for a book to help guide you along your path, The Compound Effect is an excellent choice.

Listening Length4 hours and 44 minutes
AuthorDarren Hardy
NarratorDarren Hardy
Audible.com Release DateJanuary 22, 2019
PublisherFolio Literary Management
Program TypeAudiobook
VersionUnabridged
LanguageEnglish
ASINB07MWCVQ1T
This review contains my honest opinions, which I have not been compensated for in any way.
 

Sunday, April 30, 2023

Audible Book Review: The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale

 

A forefather of the theory of positive thinking, Dr. Norman Vincent Peale put together this book on The Power of Positive Thinking, which is available in audiobook format. 

An ordained minister, Peale was one of New York City's most famous preachers. I chose this book simply because I have read numerous inspirational quotes by Peale that resonated with me. I've never read anything else he has written or contributed to. 

Since I was buying this book from Audible with a reward I had earned, I looked through reviews first. Many readers were not fond of the faith-based bent of Peale's positive thinking method. As a Christian, this did not bother me. However, I struggled to stay engaged. 

This version has two narrators, Peale and a female narrator. Peale shares the majority of each chapter, and the other narrator offers a list of tips to help the reader change their way of thinking. I would have preferred a single narrator. I also found the music interspersed throughout the narrative distracting. It looks like a newer unabridged version has been recorded, but also has two narrators.  

Overall, I found the information within the book's pages helpful as a refresher. Nothing much new, but I liked Peale's approach. I feel if I read it instead of listened to it, I might have liked it better. In its day, this book empowered people to reconsider how they think. 

Listening Length10 hours and 23 minutes
AuthorDr. Norman Vincent Peale, Clifford Peale
NarratorJohn Bedford Lloyd
Whispersync for VoiceReady
Audible.com Release DateDecember 14, 2021
PublisherSimon & Schuster Audio
Program TypeAudiobook
VersionUnabridged
LanguageEnglish
ASINB09HVZ2D57
I bought this book with an Audible reward I earned. This review contains my honest opinions, which I have not been compensated for in any way.

Wednesday, June 2, 2021

Interview with Lucy Adkins and Becky Breed, Authors of The Fire Inside

 


Lucy Adkins earned her MFA from the University of Nebraska at Omaha and is a writer of poetry, fiction, and nonfiction. Her poetry and short fiction have appeared in many journals and anthologies, and her first poetry chapbook, One Life Shining, was published by Pudding House Press. She co-presents the Nebraska Humanities program “Diaries and Letters of Early Nebraska Settlers,” and is a frequent writing instructor for OLLI, Osher Lifelong Learning Institute, and the Larksong Writers’ Workshops. Her book, Two-Toned Dress, was the winner of the 2019 Blue Light Press poetry chapbook contest. 

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Becky Breed, a veteran educator, poet, and essayist, co-wrote and facilitated “Women at the Springs,” a Nebraska Humanities program empowering women to live more courageously, as well as “The Intergenerational Project” connecting elders and teens through stories to promote communication, writing, and use of the media. She has an Ed.D. in Education, and in addition to teaching at the university level, was the principal of a Gold Star School which was awarded recognition for significant improvements in reading, writing, and math. The students’ resiliency and drive to be the best they can be helped shape the fabric for several of the enclosed essays. 

Together the two co-authored Writing in Community: Say Goodbye to Writer’s Block and Transform Your Life, which was awarded an “IPPY” in the Independent Publishers Book Awards. Writing in Community, the first book in their “Essential Writing and Creativity” series, along with the impact of Adkins’ and Breed’s many presentations and workshops led to their being named winners of the 2020 Lincoln, Nebraska Mayor’s Arts Award in Artistic Achievement in Literature.

 

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Can you tell us a bit about yourself? 

Lucy Adkins: Always I have felt a strong connection to the natural world, wanting to spend as much time in it as I can. Hiking and bird-watching are two of my greatest joys, along with green and growing things, and I spend a lot of time on my hands and knees in the garden. I live in Lincoln, Nebraska with my husband, a bluegrass musician, and our Scottie dog, Misty. My son and his family (including three fabulous grandchildren) live in Japan, and I am eager for the pandemic restrictions to lessen so I can see them. 

Becky Breed: My parents, avid readers, introduced me to books before I could walk. We didn’t have a television until I was ten so reading was my pleasure. I also spent a lot of time on a horse, looking for adventure and taking care of my pet calves. I had a wild imagination. I’ve always liked stories with a bang. Lewis Carroll’s Alice in Wonderland and Walter Farley’s Black Stallion were two of them, and any writing assignment in school was a joy. Many years later, I still like the same things I did as a child. I am the mother of two daughters and four granddaughters. It gives me so much pleasure to watch how they weave writing and creativity into their lives.

 Where did you grow up?

Lucy Adkins: I grew up on a small farm in Nance County, Nebraska—a spot almost in the very dead center of the United States. 

Becky Breed: I had the pleasure of growing up on several farms in southeastern Nebraska, land of corn, oats, and barley.

What is your fondest childhood memory?

Lucy Adkins: In addition to other farm animals, my family raised sheep, and I loved taking care of the occasional “bottle lamb,” attaching the black rubber nipple to a pop bottle filled with milk, and watching the lamb on his “knees” sucking it down, his tail wagging like mad. 

Becky Breed: One of my favorite childhood memories is being on my grandmother’s farm, wading with my cousin in the creek and making mischief. The pure delight of picking and eating as many red cherries as I could was a guilty pleasure. 

When did you begin writing?

Lucy Adkins: Like many writers, I started writing as a young child and continued through high school and college, then stopped for a long time when I was raising my son. I started what I consider “writing seriously” in my early forties.  

Becky Breed: Early. I just found some kindergarten school papers my mother saved and there was a Mother’s Day card with “You r the bist Mom!” written from me.




What is this book about?

Lucy Adkins: The Fire Inside: A Companion for the Creative Life is a book of encouragement and inspiration inviting the reader to say yes to creativity, uncover sources of inspiration, discover how the “magic” happens, and in so doing, choose to live bigger lives. Its heart-opening short essays and anecdotes can be read “straight through” or a little at a time to provide a daily source of inspiration. 

Becky Breed:  The Fire Inside is about capturing the wonder I felt as a kid. It’s about re-connecting as an adult to the spirit of imagination, seeing new possibilities, not letting no get in the way of your creativity. Our book is about being awake as if witnessing the world for the first time. And then finding how you can add to the joy.

What inspired you to write it?                                              

Lucy Adkins: So many times I have heard people say “I am not creative” or “I don’t have a creative bone in my body.” I strongly disagree. I believe that we all have within vast untapped reservoirs of creativity. And when we recognize and begin to connect with that potential, it will be one of our greatest delights. I want to share that message. 

Becky Breed: I like books that give you a new perspective or help you grow. Sometimes I see my friends shy away from their own creativity, who think creating is only for “some people.” Or, they think they are too old, or what they make is only “a little something.” I believe everyone is inherently creative and there’s no limit to what individuals can do if they put their minds and hands to work. 

Who is your favorite author?

Lucy Adkins: I love Anita Shreve, Julia Cameron, Chris Bohjalian, and Mary Oliver. 

Becky Breed: Louise Erdrich 

Where can readers purchase a copy of your book?

Lucy Adkins and Becky Breed: The Fire Inside can be purchased at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or your favorite bookseller, and is available in paperback, ebook, or on audiotape. It is Volume II of our “Essential Writing and Creativity Series.” While Volume I in the series, Writing in Community, centers around the magic of a generative writing group, and how you can write more and better, shoulder to shoulder with other writers, The Fire Inside speaks not only to writers but to creative people of all stripes, encouraging them to find and grow their passions. You can follow the link to each book below:

The Fire Inside: https://amzn.to/39s2bai

Writing in Community: https://amzn.to/2ZiVtOi 

 

Do you have a website and/or blog where readers can find out more?

Lucy Adkins and Becky Breed: Our website, thewritingandcreativelife.com, is an invitation to join the writing and creative communities. It offers posts of inspiration and encouragement no matter whether you are just tiptoeing into the artistic life,  or someone who has been writing and creating a long time. Inspiring writing/creativity exercises accompany each post to help bring out the artist in you. 

Do you have a video trailer to promote your book?  If yes, where can readers find it?

Lucy Adkins and Becky Breed: Go to our website, thewritingandcreativelife.com, and you will find our trailer on the left side of the Home page. 

What is one piece of advice you would like to share with aspiring authors everywhere?

Lucy Adkins:  I always encourage aspiring writers to read, read, read. Read not only in your own genre, but biography, poetry, science, and history, whatever you can get your hands on. Fill yourself with words, thoughts, and ideas, and they will come out in your writing. Also, develop a practice of writing at least five days of the week, and try to stick to it, even if some days you write for only fifteen or twenty minutes. Then when you find yourself diverted from your practice (as you will), forgive yourself, and begin anew. 

Becky Breed: Do not give up! Believe in yourself, establish a routine and keep writing. 

What is up next for you?

Lucy Adkins: I am currently working on a couple of novels, a book of poetry, and am planning a third book for Becky’s and my “Essential Writing and Creativity Series.” This third book, as yet unnamed will be a book of proven writing exercises to help individuals (whether writing alone or in their writing group) dig deep and unleash their full writing potential. 

Becky Breed: I am a teacher at heart and enjoy working with people. I plan on continuing offering workshops and readings, meeting other writers and creatives, and learning more about this complex and, sometimes, infuriating process of writing. I want to reach out and help others become all they can be. 

Is there anything you would like to add?

Lucy Adkins: I believe it is important to look for opportunities to say yes when it feeds your soul. Too often we say no. We are busy; we doubt ourselves. But the universe has amazing things to offer and keeps on inviting us to partake in it, and when we say yes, the world will open in unbelievable ways. 

Becky Breed: If you haven’t already, consider finding a partner or a writing community to join. Being part of one keeps you motivated and inspired. That has been true for me. It wasn’t until I joined a generative writing group, meeting and writing with others on a regular basis, that my writing really took off.





Monday, March 1, 2021

It's Monday! What Are You Reading? and Mailbox Monday - Mar 1

Welcome to It's Monday! What Are You Reading? and Mailbox Monday.


 


It's Monday! What Are You Reading? is a place to meet up and share what you have been, are and about to be reading over the week. It's a great post to organize yourself. It's an opportunity to visit and comment, and er... add to that ever growing TBR pile! So welcome in everyone. This meme started with J Kaye's Blog and then was taken up by Sheila from Book Journey. Sheila then passed it on to Kathryn at the Book Date.

Welcome to March. It looks like it will come in as a lamb with temperatures in the 40s during this week. Hopefully, precipitation will be light this month. I am ready for spring now that the three-tier garden bed planter I ordered arrived.

I had given up gardening by last fall because I don't have time for it. Then I realized I really would miss gardening, so I needed to make it more manageable. This planter will keep me from over investing in plants and will reduce weeding since I will buy soil for it. I ordered this year's seeds/plants over the weekend. 

In my reading world, I finished this fabulous book. Look for my review on March 19. 




I started this next one, which is coming up for review on March 10. 



I am also reading this one. The review will appear on March 29. 

My hope is to have the review of this next book done by March 31 at The Children's and Teens' Book Connection. 


I will also review this one at my children's book blog in March.



Then this one is next. 



 







Mailbox Monday is a meme started by Marcia of To Be Continued. Mailbox Monday is the gathering place for readers to share the books that came in their mailbox during the last week. It now has a permanent home at the Mailbox Monday blog.

My mailbox held one cute treat this week.



After a series of terrifying events, Elanora is transported to a strange neighborhood where the only way to get about is by water and the only food to eat is the grasses of the marsh. When she discovers that the water level in her new home is falling, she suspects humans are the cause and puts together a plan to save the creatures who live there.

Will Elanora persuade the colony and swimmers to overcome their fear of the unknown and embark on a dangerous journey to their new home?

How is your reading coming along? Have you found yourself reading more or less lately? What's the next book you plan to read? 

Wednesday, February 27, 2019

Book Review: People Skills 101 by Kerry C. O'Hallaron

Looking to improve your people skills? Hoping to find some tried and true principles to lessen the conflicts in your life and have better relationships? Eager to find ways to have more friends? Then People Skills 101 by Kerry C. O'Hallaron will be a great resource.

No matter where you go in life, people skills are important. In this engaging and informative book,  O'Hallaron shares his 21 "GoldenRules." Each chapter focuses on a specific "GoldenRule" and there is a neat bonus section at the end.

Broken down into five sections, the tips are simple, while the reward can be great. From something as easy as genuinely smiling to the more complex concept of finding a way not to complain, applying these concepts can improve your life. The author teaches you about what he calls the Conversation Funnel to be considered a brilliant conversationalist. He encourages the reader to practice connecting with others.  O'Hallaron also shares tips when you're communicating in a variety of mediums.

There is much value to be gained in reading People Skills 101. The best part is that these evergreen concepts will never go out of style and will be effective with a variety of people. Pick up a copy today and see what a difference it can make.


Series: New for 2019 (Book 1)
Paperback: 301 pages
Publisher: Movement Publishing (December 17, 2018)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1513641174
ISBN-13: 978-1513641171

I received a copy of this book from the author. This review contains my honest opinions, which I have not been compensated for in any way.


Monday, February 22, 2016

First Chapter Review: TRANSFORM: The Secret to Unlocking the Perfect You by Dede Barbanti


I am reviewing the first chapter of TRANSFORM: The Secret to Unlocking the Perfect You, a self-help/lifestyle/health book by Dede Barbanti.

BLURB:  Finally, a book that will provide you with the answers that change your body and your life! TRANSFORM really is the SECRET TO UNLOCKING THE PERFECT YOU. Once weighing over 200 pounds, Fitness and lifestyle expert Dede Barbanti not only gives you the tools to achieve your weight-loss goals, but helps you dig deep to fix the core issues that keep you from lasting success and your true potential.

This is not your traditional weight-loss book. Most diet books focus on the outside by changing your eating and exercise routines,but they fail to find the root cause of your bad habits: what, why, and where they all started. These band-aid treatments never treat the problem, only the symptom, and most people find themselves back at square one, frustrated and defeated. Dede’s no-holds-barred approach gets your booty into gear by tackling the real issues of your weight loss merry-go-round; so you can stop the madness and unlock the perfect you.

You can continue reading all of those other diet and lifestyle books that ultimately keep you repeating the same old story and never seems to get you anywhere, or you can get real with yourself and finally bring about the changes that you have always wanted…permanently!

COVER: Like most--if not all--books in this genre, an eye-catching photo of the author appears on the front. I guess it's to inspire the reader by seeing her results. I've just never really cared for that. What I do really love, however, is the choice of colors: the white background, bold pink letters for the title, and the pastel green of Barbanti's shirt work well together.

FIRST CHAPTER: As is usually the case for me with non-fiction, I read the Introduction prior to digging into the first chapter. Those intros really help to define the book, so they are important.

Barbanti's opening is strong because she hits on what I feel is one of the most important aspects of making a life change: you can't compare yourself to others. No one's life is perfect and it serves no purpose to compare your situation to anyone else's. Focus on your goals and make a change for your benefit alone.

Then there is a short section that talks about how to get the most out of the book. Great idea. This is followed by a testimonial from one of the author's clients and a section encouraging readers to stop self-destructive patterns and behaviors to bring about permanent changes in your life. Barbanti believes in "The Trinity of a Balanced Life": three areas in your life you must reflect upon and work on in order to make those permanent changes.

All of this is inspiring, but it's once you get to the actual first chapter that things get really interesting. With the first transformational exercise, the reader is asked to write down her "Defining Moment" and how it affected her enough to make you take action.

KEEP READING: Definitely! I love the author's practical, yet, no-nonsense style. She gets that it takes baby steps and that a transformation has to take place alongside bringing up kids and other responsibilities. But she also tells you that no one can do this but you. That's why isolating the "Defining Moment" is so important.

I'm glad I signed up for this virtual tour. This book will definitely help me as I work on my goals of eating healthier and exercising.

  • TRANSFORM: The Secret to Unlocking the Perfect You is available at Amazon.
  • Discuss this book at PUYB Virtual Book Club at Goodreads.

I received a free digital copy of this book from the author through Pump Up Your Book. This first chapter review contains my honest opinions, which I have not been compensated for in any way.