Tuesday, January 20, 2026

Top Ten Tuesday: Top Ten Promises for 2026 & Tell Me Something Tuesday: What Are Your Favorite Snow/Winter-themed Books?



Top Ten Tuesday was created by The Broke and the Bookish in June of 2010 and was moved to That Artsy Reader Girl in January of 2018. It was born of a love of lists, a love of books, and a desire to bring bookish friends together. 

Tuesday is back, and with it is our Top Ten Tuesday meme. This week, we're discussing our goals, or as I prefer to call them, promises. Before I get there, though, I want to share my Word of the Year, which will complement my promises.


Last year, I was as close to burnout as I've ever been. You probably felt it in my weekly posts, and I certainly felt it throughout my daily life. As 2026 arrived, I promised myself that change would come. Balance in life is my focus for the entire year. To create more balance, here are my...


Top Ten Promises for 2026

  1. Create a calendar that works for me: I am not a time blocker, a lover of planners, or anything else that could keep me organized. All my appointments and blog events are kept in my digital calendar on my iPhone, but the rest of my life is up in the air. I'm open to your ideas, but for now, I maintain a monthly calendar board in my office. I'm writing in appointments, the times to sit down and make calls, and my days off. My plan is for one day off a week, working up to two days off each week. 
  2. Set firmer boundaries: I didn't grow up in a family that set firm boundaries. I am not good at setting them now. That's why my days off go out the window when I get busy. That's why my vacations are working ones. In 2026, I'm committed to protecting my day off. More days off will allow for more writing, reading, and blogging, which bring me joy.
  3. Increase self-care: Self-care also falls through the cracks. In January, I dedicated myself to starting and ending the day in Scripture. Then each morning, I do 20 squats, 10 arm circles, 10 standing oblique twists, and 10 arm stretches. I've also set a more regular bedtime, which helps me get up with enough time to perform these exercises.
  4. Listen more: I do a lot of talking, but God gave me one mouth and two ears, so I should use them accordingly. I've begun asking more questions this year, which puts me in a position to listen more. I'm slipping my phone into my bag at meetings. I'm trying to keep my laptop off the table to decrease the temptation to multitask when meeting topics don't apply to me. I'm taking more notes.
  5. Maintain my goal weight: I hit my goal weight in December. It's taken years, but in the immortal words of London Tipton, "Yay me!" Drinking more water and less soda, meal planning, and healthier snacks did the trick for me. I'm still a junk food junkie at heart, and when I get busy, fast food on the road calls my name. Luckily, the fast food often makes me sick now, so I don't crave it as much.
  6. Complete my Goodreads Challenge: The only challenge I participate in is set for 60 books this year. I missed the mark last year for the first time in forever. I plan to complete the challenge this year, and already have great books from my TBR pile and the six (2 full-length, 1 middle grade, 2 picture books) I requested to review to give me a good start.
  7. Read more books from my TBR pile: Always on my list, but it is happening this year because I will reduce virtual book tour reviews, not use my next Audible credits until I've read the first six books I downloaded, and will only pre-order books from authors I know really well. Honestly, I don't feel the need to own many physical copies these days. 
  8. Finish Sheltered Hearts: Through the first week of February, I am plotting the rest of the chapters. After that is done, I will dedicate part of my day off to writing... unless I am spending time with loved ones. 
  9. Work with NEPM for branding ideas: This applies to two areas of my life--real estate and writing. Up until 2023, my tagline was "Faith-filled journeys for kids." That doesn't encompass all that I write now. The new website was a start. I need to flesh this out more fully for both of my careers. 
  10. Connect with more authors: Attending two writing conferences in 2025 made me realize how much I miss spending regular time in the writing world. The author event that I participated in last year left me yearning for author-to-author connections. I've signed up for newsletters and plan to keep an eye out in our local news for author events and new releases.
Thanks to Freepik for the image




Tell Me Something Tuesday (TMST) is hosted by Jen Twimom at That's What I'm Talking AboutTMST is a weekly discussion post where bloggers discuss a wide range of topics from books and blogging to life in general. Participation is optional, and you can leave your comments in the weekly post when you participate. Check it out if you're interested in joining.

Tell Me Something Tuesday is asking us to share our favorite snow/winter-themed books. Take a peek at my choices:

22 comments:

Shelleyrae @ Book’d Out said...

Making your self a priority Is important!
Thanks for sharing your #TTT and good luck with all your goals.

Lydia said...

Good job on reaching your goal weight! I lost about ten pounds between September and December and have more weight to lose this year.

Setting boundaries is a great goal as well. I struggle with them, too.

Deb Nance at Readerbuzz said...

I plan on listening more this year, too. I will practice!

I hope your year is much less stressful in 2026.

Laurie said...

Good luck on your goals!

Yvonne said...

Good luck with your goals. I hope 2026 is a good year for you.

Cindy said...

Self-care is super important, but women always seem to have a hard time with this. We put our families, friends, houses, jobs, and everything else first, and then, if there is time, we take care of ourselves. I have worked hard the last few years to do better, but I am still a work in progress. Good luck with all your goals.

Cindy said...

AND, congratulations on hitting your goal weight, that is huge!!

Cheryl Malandrinos said...

I agree, Shelleyrae, but I am dreadful at it. Here's to more success in 2026. Thanks for the visit.

Cheryl Malandrinos said...

Thanks, Lydia. Congratulations on your weight loss. Maybe we will learn to set some boundaries together in 2026. Thanks for the visit.

Cheryl Malandrinos said...

Such a hard thing to do, Deb, but we will keep working at it. Thanks. I appreciate the visit.

Cheryl Malandrinos said...

Thanks, Laurie. Wishing you the best with your goals, too. Thanks for visiting.

Cheryl Malandrinos said...

Thanks, Yvonne. I pray the same for you. Appreciate your visit.

Cheryl Malandrinos said...

You are so right, Cindy. We are always last in line. Wishing you much success with your goals in 2026. Thanks for the visit.

Cheryl Malandrinos said...

Thanks! Hopefully, I can maintain it.

Emily said...

I hope that you manage to find a balance. I know that it is hard. Everything feels like it needs to be done now and then you run out of time!

Have a great week!

Susan said...

Congratulations on reaching your goal weight! I know how tough it is to lose weight, so kudos to you. Good luck with all your goals.

Happy TTT (on a Wednesday)!

Aj @ Read All The Things! said...

Congrats on hitting your goal weight! One of my goals this year is to be a better listener too.

Marwah A said...

Congratulations on hitting your weight goal! I'm on a weight loss journey myself so I'm overjoyed for you 💗. I'm trying be better at self-care too this year. I hope you achieve all your goals 😊.

If you'd like to visit, here's my TTT: https://thebooklorefairyreads.wordpress.com/2026/01/20/top-ten-tuesday-goals-for-2026/

~ Marwah @ The Booklore Fairy

Cheryl Malandrinos said...

Thanks, Emily. I do so much better this time of year than when real estate gets busy. Consistency falls away. Appreciate your visit.

Cheryl Malandrinos said...

Thanks, Susan. Not being home to snack definitely makes a difference. Thanks for visiting!

Cheryl Malandrinos said...

Thanks, Aj. Active listening is so hard. Good luck with your goals. Thanks for visiting!

Cheryl Malandrinos said...

Aw, thanks, Marwah! Wishing you the best of luck with your goals. Thanks for visiting!